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May 14, 2025
Developing Social Skills in Preschoolers: What Parents Can Do
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Periwinkle Preschool & Daycare - Banashankari & Srinagar

At Periwinkle Preschool & Daycare, located in the heart of Banashankari and Srinagar, we believe that social development is just as important as academic readiness in the early years. Children don't simply show up at preschool knowing how to take turns, express themselves, or build friendships - these are skills that must be nurtured with patience, intention, and consistency.

The preschool years mark a child's first experience in a world beyond the family circle. It's here that they learn how to collaborate with peers, communicate needs, and navigate group settings - all within the safe and structured environment of the classroom. While our teachers guide this journey every day, the role of parents in shaping and reinforcing social skills at home is irreplaceable.

A Collaborative Journey: School and Home Together

Children thrive when the values at school are echoed at home. At Periwinkle, our daily routines are designed to help children interact meaningfully - with peers, teachers, and the environment around them. From guided group play to interactive storytelling, every activity is crafted to support emotional expression, active listening, and respectful communication.

But learning doesn't stop at the school gate. Parents play a vital role in reinforcing what children experience in the classroom. Whether it's teaching them to say "please" and "thank you" or helping them understand how to manage disappointment, your responses at home help set the tone for how your child interacts with the world.

Everyday Moments, Big Lessons

Parents often underestimate the value of everyday interactions in building social confidence. Waiting their turn at the park, helping with chores, or saying hello to neighbors - these seemingly small situations are rich with opportunity. They teach patience, responsibility, and the ability to connect with others.
One of the most powerful things a parent can do is model healthy social behavior. Children learn by watching: how you respond to conflict, how you show empathy, and how you treat others all become their first lessons in social interaction. Using real-life moments to demonstrate kindness, honesty, and problem-solving creates a strong, relatable foundation for them to build upon.

Encouraging Healthy Peer Interaction

Children need opportunities to interact with peers in both structured and unstructured ways. While school offers a wonderful space for this, arranging playdates or group activities outside of school allows them to practice in different settings. When children play together under gentle adult guidance, they learn important skills like negotiation, cooperation, and empathy.

It's also helpful to talk with your child about their social experiences - ask open-ended questions about their friends, how they feel during group activities, or what made them happy or upset at school. These conversations help children reflect on their experiences and understand their emotions, building self-awareness and emotional intelligence.

Letting Children Solve - But Not Alone

Another important way parents can support social development is by giving children the chance to navigate challenges independently - but with reassurance close by. If a disagreement arises with a friend, resist the urge to step in immediately. Instead, guide your child in understanding the other person's perspective, expressing their feelings calmly, and working toward a solution. These moments teach problem-solving and build resilience.

At Periwinkle, our educators take a similar approach in the classroom. We don't give children answers - we give them the tools and space to figure things out with gentle guidance. This balance of independence and support builds lasting confidence.

Consistency Is Key

Social skills, like any skill, take time and repetition to develop. Children benefit most when parents and educators are aligned in expectations and approaches. At Periwinkle, we keep communication open and honest with families - sharing observations, small victories, and areas where children may need a little extra support. When a child sees that the adults in their life are working together, they feel more secure, more understood, and more capable.

A Thoughtful Foundation for Lifelong Success

Strong social skills are not just about making friends. They influence how a child learns, copes with challenges, and ultimately engages with the world as they grow. A child who can express their needs, regulate their emotions, and collaborate with others is better equipped for success - not just in school, but in life.

At Periwinkle Preschool & Daycare, we are committed to nurturing these foundational skills with care, consistency, and deep respect for every child's pace of growth. In our centers at Banashankari and Srinagar, we provide a warm, inclusive atmosphere where children learn not only how to think - but how to connect.

Because at the end of the day, academic skills may open doors, but social skills build the confidence to walk through them.